My Definition of Jealousy
Jealousy is an interesting emotion. I’ve felt it, I know people who feel it, and I’ve been on the receiving end of someone that felt it. Nobody can deny that there is a lot of power there.

But the more I explore the topic, the more I have come to believe that Jealousy- as an emotion – really doesn’t exist.

My definition of "LOVE"
Enough has been written about “love” over the years to fill numerous books, and to totally muddy the way this word is used. So much so that, these days, people either say it as a platitude, or they are afraid to say it because of the ramifications of “what it means”. I’d like to strip that out of the way, and give you what I think is the definition of that word that we all ought to use, as it gives it back it’s power.

Are You Ready for Valentine's Day?
I'm curious. How many people really aren't prepared for Valentine's Day? And how many single people shun the holiday completely? Vote now in the poll below by clicking on the link you choose. Yes, I was ready months ago. Yes, I planned it all recently. I have most of my

What To Do For St. Valentine's Day?
With only ten days to go, I'm getting a lot of questions about St. Valentine's Day. Where should we go? What should we do? What do I do with a gift that I bought in anticipation for February 14th now that we broke up? How do I honor a day

Best Overall Dating Site 2012
A few weeks have passed without much fanfare in the 2012 Dating Readers' Choice awards. Nominations haven't been pouring in like they did last year (likely because of the sign-in requirement to nominate) although you can now share your nominations via Twitter and Facebook. This time last year I had

Reader Asks For Some Senior Dating Help
Stuart is a 60-something single gay man who hasn't dated in over 30 years, mostly because he's been taking care of an ailing parent in a challenging situation. He's eager to meet someone, and specifically wants to find a kindred soul that understands his unique situation - but he has